Nguwe wedwa kum kweli hlabathi lizaliswe zizinto ezininzi.
Ndadibana nomyeni wam ngo-1996. Ngelo xesha, ngokwaziswa komhlobo, kwalungiselelwa idethi engaziwa endlwini yesalamane sam. Ndikhumbula xa ndandigalela amanzi kumntu owayendixelela, yaza indebe yawa phantsi ngengozi. Into emangalisayo kukuba iglasi ayizange iqhekeke kwaye amanzi awazange achithe nethontsi. Udade wethu omdala wathi ngovuyo: “uphawu oluhle! Lo ngumtshato olungileyo, kwaye nina nobabini niqinisekile ukuba niza kuwenza!” Emva kokuva oku, sonke sineentloni kancinci, kodwa imbewu yothando ityalwe ngokuzolileyo ezintliziyweni zomnye nomnye.
“Abanye abantu bathi uthando yiminyaka elikhulu yokuba nesizungu, ude udibane nomntu oza kukukhusela ngokungagungqiyo, kwaye ngelo xesha lonke isizungu liza kubuya.” Ndingoyena mdala kusapho lwam. Ngaphandle kwemali eninzi endandiyifumana ngokuthengisa impahla, ndandifuna ukonga iindleko zokukhulisa abantakwethu ababini abancinci ukuze baye eyunivesithi.
Xa umyeni wam uQi wayesebenza eSongyuan Oilfield, wayethatha ikhefu rhoqo emva kweenyanga ezintandathu. Xa sadibana kwakhona, uQi wandinika incwadi yakhe yomvuzo. Ngelo xesha, ndandiqinisekile ukuba andikhethanga mntu ungafanelekanga. Ukutshata naye kwandenza ndaziva ndonwabile.
Ngaphandle kothando oluninzi, umtshato wethu wenzeka ngomhla wama-20 kuFebruwari ngo-1998.
Ngomhla wesi-5 kweyeKhala kunyaka olandelayo, kwazalwa inkwenkwe yethu yokuqala uNai Xuan.
Njengoko sobabini sinemisebenzi, kufuneka sibuyisele unyana wethu oneenyanga ezisibhozo emaphandleni kumakhulu wakhe. Ngamanye amaxesha emva kosuku oluxakekileyo, ndibakhumbula kakhulu abantwana bam xa ndifika ekhaya ebusuku, ngoko ke ndithatha iteksi ndize ndibaleke ndibuye ngokuhlwa, ndiphathele ukutya okucoliweyo kobisi ndize ndikhawuleze ndibuye.
Ngenxa yeemeko ezimbi zasekhaya, kufuneka sibalele ukuze sithenge amalahle, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka sigawule iinkuni ukuze sipheke. Ngexesha elinzima kakhulu, isixa sokutya ngeveki sisiqwenga se-tofu. Yonke imihla kunokubakho imifuno eluhlaza kunye nesiqwenga selahle, esilintwasahlobo yethu.
Kwakubanda kakhulu ebusika kangangokuba mna nonyana wam savuka ngentsimbi yesine kusasa, waza umyeni wam wavuka wasivuthela isitovu.
Ngomnye unyaka, xa indlu eqeshiweyo yadilizwa ngokukhawuleza, mna nonyana wam kwafuneka siphume.
Ngelo xesha, kwakungekho fowuni, kwaye uQi wayengenakukwazi ukunxibelelana naye emsebenzini. Akubuyela kwakhe ekhaya, sasingekho. Sasifuna ukubuza ngaphambi kokuba sifumane iindaba kumnini wevenkile encinci.
UQi wafunga ngasese entliziyweni yakhe ukuba uza kunika umama wethu kunye nomama ikhaya labo nangona kunjalo! Okwangoku, saqesha iishelufu, iibungalow kunye neeplanga, ekugqibeleni saba nekhaya lethu elincinci, kwaye ivenkile yempahla yakhula kancinci kancinci ukusuka kwikhawuntara ukuya kwiivenkile ezine.
Ezo ntsuku zibuhlungu zibe ziinkumbulo ezingalibalekiyo ebomini.
Ubomi buhlala buhamba novuyo nosizi.
Kwiminyaka embalwa eyadlulayo, xa ndandihlolwa umzimba ndafumanisa ukuba ndinesifo se-uterine leiomyoma. Ndandiphazanyiswa kukuya exesheni kakhulu kunye neentlungu eziwela esinqeni sam nakwisisu esisezantsi.
Ugqirha wezifo zabesifazane wasekuhlaleni undixelele ukuba kufuneka i-hysterectomy ukuze kufunyanwe unyango olupheleleyo lwe-leiomyoma.
Xa safumanisa ukuba i-ultrasound ye-HIFU egxile kakhulu ingangenisi ntsholongwane ingayigcina isibeleko kwaye akukho nxeba likhoyo kutyando, sabona ithemba kwakhona.
Umsebenzi woMlawuli uChen Qian ube yimpumelelo enkulu kangangokuba sakhawuleza sabuyela kwidolophu yakowabo ngosuku olulandelayo emva kokuphumla okwethutyana.
Ngoku ukuya kwam exesheni kucacile ukuba kunciphile, kwaye iimpawu zam ezingabonakaliyo ziyancipha kakhulu.
Ngenxa yeqela likaGqirha Chen, ndikwazile ukugcina isibeleko kwaye ndiqhubeke ndingumfazi opheleleyo.
Enkosi, gqirha. Enkosi, sithandwa sam, ngenkathalo yakho kunye nenkampani yakho kule minyaka idlulileyo!
Ixesha lokuthumela: Matshi-14-2023