Nguwe wedwa kum kweli hlabathi liziintlobo ngeentlobo.
Ndadibana nomyeni wam ngowe-1996. Ngelo xesha, ngokwaziswa komhlobo wam, kwalungiselelwa ukuba kubekho umhla ongaboniyo kwikhaya lesalamane sam.Ndikhumbula xa ndigalela amanzi kwi-introducer, kwaye ikomityi yawa phantsi ngempazamo.eyona nto imangalisayo kukuba iglasi ayizange iphuke kwaye namanzi akazange achithe nethontsi.Udade wethu omdala wathi ngovuyo: “Uphawu oluhle!Oku kufuneka kube ngumtshato olungileyo, kwaye nina nobabini niqinisekile ukuba niza kuwenza!” Emva kokuva oku, sonke saba neentloni, kodwa imbewu yothando iye yatyalwa ngokuzolileyo entliziyweni yomnye nomnye.
“Abanye abantu bathi uthando yiminyaka elikhulu yobulolo, de udibane nomntu oya kukukhusela ngokungagungqiyo, yaye ngelo xesha bonke ubulolo bunendlela yokubuya.”Ndingumafungwashe kowenu.Ngaphandle kwenkoliso yemali endandiyifumana ngokuthengisa iimpahla, ndandifuna ukonga iindleko zokukhulisa abantakwethu ababini abancinane ukuze baye ekholejini.
Xa umyeni wam uQi wayesebenza eSongyuan Oilfield, wayethatha ikhefu rhoqo kwisiqingatha senyanga.Saphinda sadibana uQi wandinika ipassbook yomvuzo wakhe.Ngelo xesha, ndandiqinisekile ukuba andikhethanga mntu ungafanelekanga.Ukutshata naye kwandenza ndaziva ndonwabile.
Ngaphandle kokuthandana kangako, umtshato wethu watshata ngoFebruwari 20, 1998.
Nge-5 kaJulayi kunyaka olandelayo, inkwenkwe yethu yokuqala uNai Xuan yazalwa.
Njengoko sobabini sinemisebenzi, kufuneka sibuyisele unyana wethu oneenyanga ezisibhozo ezilalini kumakhulu wakhe.Ngamanye amaxesha emva kosuku oluxakekileyo, ndibakhumbula ngokwenene abantwana bam xa ndifika ekhaya ebusuku, ngoko ndikhwela iteksi ndibaleke ndibuye ngorhatya, ndiphathe amashwamshwam aphuhliweyo obisi kwaye ndikhawuleze ndibuye.
Ngenxa yeemeko ezimbi zasekhaya, kufuneka sibale ukuze sithenge amalahle, yaye maxa wambi side sicande iinkuni ukuze sipheke.Ngexesha elinzima kakhulu, isixa sokutya ngeveki sisiqhekeza se-tofu.Yonke imihla kunokubakho imifuno eluhlaza kunye neqhekeza lamalahle, okuyintwasahlobo yethu.
Kwakubanda kakhulu ebusika kangangokuba mna nonyana wam savuka ngentsimbi yesine ekuseni, waza umyeni wam wavuka wasivulela isitovu.
Ngomnye unyaka, xa indlu eyayiqeshisayo yadilizwa ngokukhawuleza, mna nonyana wam kwafuneka sifuduke.
Ngeloxesha ibingekho iphone, uQi ebengakwazi ukudibana naye emsebenzini.Xa ebuyela apho ahlala khona, sabe singekho.Sasingxamele ukubuza ngaphambi kokuba sifumane iindaba kumnini wevenkile encinane.
UQi wafunga ngasese entliziyweni yakhe ukuba umama wethu nomama uzakunika ikhaya labo kakade!Ngelo xesha, saqesha iishedi, iibungalows namaplanga, yaye ekugqibeleni saba nekhaya lethu elincinane, yaye ivenkile yempahla yakhula ngokuthe ngcembe ukusuka kwikhawuntara ukuya kutsho kwiivenkile ezine.
Ezo ntsuku zilusizi ziye zaba zezona nkumbulo zingenakulibaleka ebomini.
Ubomi busoloko buhamba nolonwabo kunye nosizi.
Kwiminyaka embalwa edlulileyo, ukuhlolwa kwam ngokomzimba kwafumanisa ukuba ndiphethwe yi-uterine leiomyoma.Ndaphazanyiswa kukuya exesheni ngokugqithiseleyo nokuwa kwabuhlungu esinqeni nakumazantsi esisu.
Ugqirha wasekuhlaleni wandixelela ukuba kufuneka uqhaqho lwesibeleko ukuze kufumaneke unyango olupheleleyo lweleiomyoma.
Sathi sakufunda ukuba i-high-focus non-invasive ultrasound yeHIFU inokugcina isibeleko kwaye kungabikho nxeba kuqhaqho, sabona ithemba kwakhona.
Ukusebenza kukaMlawuli u-Chen Qian kwaba yimpumelelo kangangokuba sabuyela kwidolophu yasekhaya ngosuku olulandelayo emva kokuphumla okufutshane.
Ngoku ukuya kwam exesheni ngokucacileyo kuncitshisiwe, kwaye iimpawu zam ezizimeleyo zincinci kakhulu.
Ndiyabulela kwiqela likaGqirha uChen, ndakwazi ukugcina isibeleko kwaye ndiqhubeke nokuba ngumfazi opheleleyo.
Enkosi gqirha.Enkosi, sithandwa sam, ngenkathalo yakho kunye nenkampani kule minyaka idlulileyo!
Ixesha lokuposa: Mar-14-2023